If you’re considering placing your baby for adoption in Maine, finding the right adoption agency is one of the most important steps in the process. A trusted adoption agency can provide the guidance and support you need to navigate this emotional decision with confidence and care. Whether you’re still exploring your options or ready to create an adoption plan, understanding what to look for in an adoption agency can help you feel more at ease.
In this guide, we’ll walk you through the key factors to consider when choosing a Maine adoption agency. From understanding the types of adoption available to knowing what kind of support you can expect, this information will help you feel more prepared and empowered as you make decisions for yourself and your baby.
Introduction to Adoption in Maine
Considering adoption for your baby is a deeply personal decision, and it is natural to have questions and concerns about the process. In Maine, partnering with an adoption agency gives expectant/birth mothers the opportunity to create a plan that reflects their wishes and the best interests of their child. Whether you are exploring adoption as an option or already leaning toward this choice, understanding how adoption works in Maine can help you feel more confident and supported.
Maine adoption agencies are equipped to provide the guidance and care you need throughout the process. From helping you understand your legal rights to matching you with an adoptive family that aligns with your values, these agencies offer compassionate support at every step. Knowing that you have options and control over key decisions—like choosing the adoptive family and deciding on future contact—can make the process feel less overwhelming and more empowering.
What is Adoption?
Adoption describes a legal process where individuals and couples become permanent parents of a child. Adoptive parents assume full parental rights and responsibilities of their child. Adoption is a beautiful way to grow a family.
Types of Adoption in Maine
Domestic Adoption
With domestic adoption, infants and young children are placed with adoptive families within the U.S. This is the most common type of adoption for expectant/birth mothers who choose to lovingly place their child for adoption. It is often connected with the term private adoption in Maine.
Learn More About Domestic Adoption
International Adoption
This is the type of adoption of a child born outside of the adoptive family’s country. This is not the usual path for American expectant/birth parents. This is something that U.S. residents looking to adopt may choose, if they want to adopt a child from another country.
Foster Care Adoption
Foster care is a state-run system that places children in homes – temporarily and/or permanently – after they have been removed from their family’s home. This typically happens when a judge determines the child is in an unsafe or unsuitable environment. Foster care can be a pathway to parenthood for those looking to adopt in an inexpensive way, but it is not the path that is chosen by expectant/birth parents. If you are lovingly making an adoption plan for your child, foster care is not the route you will take.
Choosing the Best Maine Adoption Agency
Questions to Ask Potential Agencies
- What types of supportive services do you offer?
- How often can I contact someone for support?
- What types of adoption plans do you offer?
- Can I choose the adoptive family? How do you help with that process?
- Do you assist with communication between birth and adoptive families?
- What happens after the adoption is complete?
Evaluating Agency Credentials
When researching Maine adoption agencies, consider licensing, testimonials, and the year an organization was founded. The best adoption agencies in Maine are typically fully licensed and have years of experience under their belts. Adoptions With Love, for example, is a fully licensed, nonprofit private adoption agency that has been working with expectant/birth parents since 1986.
Finding a Full-Service Agency
The best resource to use, when planning an adoption, is your Maine adoption agency. It is important to find a fully licensed, full-service adoption agency. This professional organization will oversee the adoption process and ensure it is done safely and legally.
Overview of the Adoption Process in Maine
Adoption is an emotional journey, but it can be made easier with the support of a reputable agency. It helps to know that you are being cared for, respected, and treated with compassion every step of the way. It can also help to know what to expect throughout the adoption process. Here is a brief overview of the adoption process in Maine.
1. Choose a Maine Adoption Agency
This is the first step of the adoption process. It is important to find a Maine adoption agency that you can trust. The best adoption agencies in Maine will offer supportive services, at no cost to you, and treat you with the respect, patience, and understanding that you deserve.
2. Make an Adoption Plan
Once you have chosen the right adoption agency in Maine, you may begin to consider the type of adoption plan you would like to build. You can choose between an open, semi-open, and closed adoption. Most adoptions today are open – meaning there is ongoing communication between birth and adoptive parents. There is no right or wrong choice when it comes to adoption plans. You can choose the plan that best meets your needs and makes you feel comfortable and confident in your adoption decision.
3. Select an Adoptive Family
Another benefit in choosing adoption is having the power to choose your child’s adoptive family. You can browse the adoptive family profiles of your chosen Maine adoption agency and speak with – or meet – the family before making your decision.
4. Create a Hospital and Birth Plan
You can also choose the hospital and birth plan that would make you feel most at ease. Who would you like in the delivery room with you? Who should hold the baby first? Would you like special time alone with the baby? These are some of the questions you can ask yourself – and wish to express – when building your birth plan.
Legal Considerations for Maine Adoption
Adoption laws are complex and vary by state. It is important to work with a Maine adoption agency that can provide you with a team of adoption attorneys specifically trained in the state. It can also be helpful to know some of the basic adoption laws in Maine. Some states require a wait period after the child is born. For example, in Maine, biological parents must wait 72 hours before signing consent to the adoption. From there, the adoption revocation period in Maine is 5 days. It is important, however, to take all the time you need when making your decision. It is never too late to make an adoption plan.
Financial Assistance for Maine Birth Mothers
It is important to find a Maine adoption agency that will offer you the assistance you need during this difficult time in your life. The priority of your Maine adoption agency should be to keep you as comfortable as possible during this challenging time. The services at Adoptions With Love are always 100% free for expectant/birth mothers. There is never any cost to you. In fact, you can receive financial support during your pregnancy.
Expectant/birth mothers who choose to place their baby for adoption can receive support with the following:
- General living expenses. Whether you need help with utilities or cell phone bills, we can assist you as needed.
- Rent. We can cover a deposit and several months of rent.
- Medical coverage. We can help you find a doctor or midwife with whom you feel comfortable. We can also cover any uninsured costs, such as prenatal and postpartum care and hospital visits.
- Comprehensive counseling services – before and after the adoption is complete.
- Legal assistance. Our team of Maine adoption attorneys will keep you informed of your rights, answer any questions you may have, and make sure your adoption process is safe and legal.
- Adoption planning. Our experienced staff can help you custom design an adoption plan that meets your needs, whether you want an open, semi-open, or closed adoption. The choices are yours.
- Maternity clothing.
- Transportation.
- Food.
Post Adoption Support Services in Maine
Adoption is a lifelong journey. It does not end once the paperwork is signed. At Adoptions With Love, we understand the importance of continuing counseling services after the adoption is complete. Adoptions With Love will pay for post adoption counseling for a year after placement of your child in their adoptive home. Our team of devoted, compassionate counselors is available to give you emotional support and to facilitate ongoing communication throughout your life.
Frequently Asked Questions about Maine Adoption
What are the adoption laws I need to know in Maine?
Adoption laws vary by state. It is important to work with a Maine adoption agency that can provide you with trained attorneys who are well-versed in adoption laws in Maine.
Can I choose my child’s adoptive family?
Yes. At Adoptions With Love, you can choose your child’s adoptive parents. You can also speak with – or meet them in person – if you wish. Your adoption specialist can provide you with adoptive family profiles to browse. They can also get more information about prospective families, should you have any questions.
Can I have contact with my child after I place my child for adoption?
Yes. At Adoptions With Love, all adoptive families agree to a semi-open or open adoption. This means there is ongoing communication between birth and adoptive families for the child’s upbringing. Every adoption is different, and the same rule applies to adoption plans. You may choose to stay connected with occasional text messages, email, phone calls, or in-person reunions. A Maine adoption agency, such as Adoptions With Love, can help you determine the best form and frequency of communication that meets your needs.
What will my child think of me?
Most adopted children in open adoptions report having positive feelings about their situation. They grow up with a strong sense of identity, having access to their background and adoption story. They also grow up knowing they are loved by two families, not just one. If you feel that you need a closed adoption, that is okay, too. You can rest assured your child will be raised in a healthy and loving home that is full of opportunities. You can always open your adoption later; adoption is a life-long journey.
How do I know my baby will be placed in a safe and stable home?
Every adoptive family who works with Adoptions With Love must complete a Home Study. This several month-long process includes several home visits, interviews, background checks, and the review of medical and financial documents. This ensures that every adopted family home is a healthy one – mentally, emotionally, physically, and financially.
What if I change my mind after I have chosen the adoptive family?
At Adoptions With Love, you will never be pressured to complete the adoption process. Until you sign the consent forms, you can change your mind. We encourage expectant/birth mothers to take all the time they need before making their final decision.
Who must consent to an adoption in Maine?
According to Maine adoption laws, written consent to adoption must be given by:
- Each living parent
- The adoption agency
- A guardian appointed by the court, if needed
How and when can birth parents consent to adoption in Maine?
Maine birth mothers can consent to adoption no earlier than 72 hours (about 3 days) following their child’s birth. Consent must be given in writing. The 72-hour waiting period gives birth mothers time to meet their baby and consider their decision before signing the official documents. Adoptions With Love encourages birth mothers to take as much time as they need. It is never too late to make an adoption plan.
An Overview of Maine Pregnancy Options
Facing an unplanned pregnancy is overwhelming, but the good news is that you have choices. You can choose from:
- Adoption
- Parenthood
- Termination
This decision can seem intimidating. You can – and should – lean on those you trust for support. With an adoption agency, you can lean on your counselor and social worker for guidance and emotional support. You should never be pressured into any decision regarding your pregnancy.
Work with an Adoption Agency in Maine
Adoption is a positive choice that can offer many benefits for expectant/birth mothers and adopted children. It can be a challenging and emotional experience, but it is one that you should not face alone. Finding the right Maine adoption agency is the first place to start. At Adoptions With Love, you will NEVER be alone in the adoption process. We are always here with you, even if it is just to talk. Allowing your baby to be a part of a loving adoptive family is a brave and selfless choice for your child’s future. If you want to learn more about adoption, we have the resources, expertise, and love necessary to meet your needs during and after your pregnancy.
For more information about working with a Maine adoption agency, please contact us today. AWL is available toll-free any time of day, 24/7. Contact us by text (SMS) at 617-777-0072, by phone at 1-800-722-7731, or online. Our staff is here to answer your call any time of day or night, any day of the week.